I (f) don’t know if I’m really over reacting here.
My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in about 6 weeks, we’ve both had really bad colds/tired/etc.
Tonight I went upstairs and actually cried because he decided to stay downstairs after I offered it on a plate. We have what I would class an average sex life once or twice a week (is that average I don’t know) but after such a dry spot I was pissed off going to bed.
This is where it went weird I woke up in our bed about 1 or 2 hours later with him wanking next to me recording it. I’ve freaked, locked myself in the spare bedroom and now I can’t sleep.
Is this weird? I feel violated. I’m perfectly ok with my boyfriend masterbating, but why next to me when I was asleep? Why was he recording it?
We have been together 4 years and have no children. Both in our 30’s.
Advice please.
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Was he making a video for someone???
Talk to him, don’t presume to know or get a bunch of strange things out into your head. Go straight to him. Let him know it bothered you and talk it over. Best of luck
Masturbating in bed next to you happens especially in long term relationships. Im guilty of doing it next to my husband so I’m not going to judge.
However, why the fuck was he recording himself? What other reason could it be than to share it with someone? Is he masturbating to videos of him masturbating? Is this video for his own future spank bank content? Are you sure he wasnt watching porn? Why would he choose to recording himself rubbing one out and not have sex instead? Trust your gut on this…its strange.
Masturbating in bed is normal I think, but recording it is kind of weird. Id suggest just talking to the dude and see what he says.
I was going to say that, yeah, if you’re having sex once or twice a week, of course he also jerks off.
But the fact he’s recording is weird as fuck. Did he say why?
Also, I’ve never jerked off in bed with an SO, but others here are saying they do, so maybe I’m the weird one? Idk, whole thing sounds super strange to me.