I (F29) grew up with the negative connotations that periods (especially with sex) were disgusting and gross. Obviously my view point has changed as I grew up (at least with the gross factor). My fiancé (M34) and I very recently had period sex (a first for the both of us) he REALLY reassured me that “he really didn’t care or even mind about the obvious happenings of my anatomy during that time of the month”.
Meanwhile I was SOOO much in my head unable to enjoy myself mentally physically and sexually until like a literal switch when off in my head and I discovered that I can actually GIVE IN to my hormones, excite myself up for pleasure (and of course shower afterwards).
It’s kinda interesting and weird in my opinion that I think I had some sort of “sexual awakening” that night. Now that I am back on the hormonal birth control & not on placebos for 3 weeks, it’s making me CRAVE sex in a way that I have NEVER felt in my life.
Tl;dr: Period Sex isn’t so bad once you get passed the obvious.
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It really isn’t bad but my gf didn’t warn me once and had a bit of a mess on the bed and ruined my favorite boxers lol overall not a bad experience
It really isn’t, we put a towel down and have sex and I wipe my dick off after. Idk why people act like it’s a big deal, unless you have a problem with blood then that I can understand 100%. But otherwise I think everyone needs to try it and they’ll learn they liked it.