what are your “red-flags” when it comes to dating?

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1. They’re not looking for the same as you are. For example, you might be looking for a relationship. Whereas they might be looking for casual sex.

2. “Red flags” early on for me would be me being the only one asking questions, starting conversations, and setting up dates. If I’m the only one making effort to actually get to know the other person and hang out, then I’m turned off.

3. mine are : when they only care to look at my social media. ( which I don’t even use since a couple of years) had an experience where I met a guy irl, he didn’t care about me but he did care about my insta? That’s weird like why do you care so much about how I look like on pictures? I am literally standing right in front of you.

4. I get invested far too early

5. Asking for money, especially when it’s not even for an emergency…but for cosmetics instead.