So me and hubby are coming up on our 3 year anniversary, 5 years together total. I (28/F) and he (35/M) for some reason had this idea to pretend to be best friends with benefits. Lol. I felt overwhelmed with some of the responsibilities and wanted to have a relaxing weekend. But for the past few days we have been texting each other like friends with benefits as if we were not married and it has been hotter and sexier than it has been since our first year ! We are sending risky half naked pictures, sexy texts and the best part is when I text “Is it cool if I spend the night again?” And he’s like “Yeah I want you here.” Obviously being that we are married we don’t have conversations like this….but something about hearing him say “I want you here….” Has stirred something inside of me. I’ve cleaned the house and did his laundry then sent a text saying “I washed my clothes with yours hope you don’t mind” lol.

There are other sexier texts that were sent but I am having so much fun with it I wanted to share it here ! I think this is considered role playing and if you ever need a different vibe in the relationship I definitely recommend it 10/10!

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  2. This is so sweet and wholesome. ❤️ Thanks for the inspo! Those texts are too cute lol

  3. How do you not just bust our laughing when you see each other?

    I dont think were good enough actors lol

  6. This sounds like fun, but we already text each other all kinds of sexy things so I don’t think it would add a too much for us. For us it started a few years ago and has just kept on going.

    At first I would text something sweet to let her know I was thinking of her. She’d respond and with each back & forth it got a little more risqué. When I figure we’re at about a 5 she always suddenly cranks it up to 10.

  7. I love this!! My partner (26m) and I (22f) just had our first baby boy (6mo), and it’s been really hard to get back into the groove of us. I mean we barely know how to communicate outside of baby and finances. It’s been really tough. We’ve made ground, but we still have so far yet to go, and this is gonna help so much!

  9. We have tried but we couldn’t keep in character and just kept laughing…..she would go do errands….come back with a trench coat on and ring the doorbell. Im like what the fuck….proceeds to say im here to help clean the house and has a sexy ass teddy on with garters…starts dusting. Or i would do the same…wear a mullet wig with a tool belt on and say im here to fix the dryer….etc.

    We just laugh half way though it….what’s even better is the neighbors are going wtf when we show up in clearly obvious costumes…they just start laughing because they know what we are doing.

  10. I love this.
    Get some wigs. That makes it more fun. Used to role play so much my partner missed me.
    Good times.

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