I (22f) have never felt pleasure during sex. I’ve had a few partners and I’ve never felt anything at all, honestly. I’ve faked it every single time and I’m so tired of it! I want to actually enjoy having sex but I’m starting to feel like I’m just not meant to.
Has anyone else gone through this? If so, how did you overcome it?
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Nothing at all? Two questions….
1. You attracted to these men?
2. Do they know what they are doing?
Beat me to it
My, now ex gf, also had this problem, she didn’t feel much during sex, not because of my incompetence but in general and i felt shity about not being able to satisfy my partner. Even though i was ok with us not having too much of sex, she still did it and with reasoning of she like to satisfy partner during sex and she is more then happy to do so and be intimate. So, what i was trying to tell you was, that you dont have to put a burden on yourself, just try to enjoy the process and intimacy and dont bring yourself to sex if you dont want it
Do you enjoy masturbating or using toys?
Be more specific please. With both PIV and oral sex, what happens? Do you feel absolutely nothing? Are you able to get into the mood and aroused prior to the sex, or is that a problem too?
Do you masturbate and feel pleasure and orgasm from it? Are your partners providing ample foreplay and oral sex?