Ghosting the day we were supposed to meet

10 comments

1. Did he ever give an explanation? Or has he completely ghosted? It seems a bit odd to me that you were having regular conversations, and then he didn’t finalize the plans for meeting up. But if he stopped interacting with you, then he’s out.

2. Depends, did he ever reach out to give a sincere apology and reason? Or did he never reach out?

3. Chickened out for some reason. I value my time so likelihood of giving a second chance would be slim.

4. I think give him a week to get back to you with some explanation and an apology. If he doesn’t, I’d try to do the mental work to distance yourself from him so you don’t spend any time/effort wondering about him unnecessarily. Easier said than done, I know.

5. My advice? Yes, it would it could/would surprise any of us. Don’t live inside your head, don’t ask anyone but **the person** who has this answer. This is a relationship or potential beginnings of: building a unique communication with this person. As to how you choose to further invest/interact with this person, is your choice. Imo, you decide if it is worth further efforts.

6. He’s shown you he’s unreliable – why would you want to pursue this relationship?

7. “Why the fuck do guys do that”

   Same reason girls do it lol.

8. Flaking on dates keeps women on your toes, when men are too available, it makes women think you aren’t doing anything

9. >and he’s always asking me to come over.

   Hes asking you and any other woman on planet earth, as well. Someone else took him up on the offer and now you are here.

10. Online dating plagues men and women with unlimited options. It’s paralysis of analysis. Accept it and try meet men in person. It’s the best way