Not sure what to do. I was good friends with him in college, we hung out a lot but distanced after college since we live an hour apart. Her account was active last month, she has had an account for 3 years so safe to say she’s been using it successfully/actively. Can’t find her profile when I search normally but I got a message from her so I was able to view her profile (you can’t tell who I am in my profile pic) but can’t see what she said. Assuming she has herself set to hidden for obvious reasons. The pics she uses aren’t on her social media accounts so obviously from her phone directly.
Her profile states single with discretion tag “looking for someone to sweep me off my feet or find my prince charming” I thought these two had the perfect relationship but obviously one sided. I know he will be heart broken, not sure how to tell him. Hard to explain why I’m on site so won’t bother ( I don’t sugar ) so will send a message anonymously I think… I know if I was him I would want to know.. good idea or no? Not sure if posting here is the best idea .. but will he even believe me if i send it anonymously. The guy isn’t the best earner and he’s frugal but he’s a good dude I feel really bad.
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Tell him, no ifs or buts.
if he knows about it , then the worst case is he’ll be a little embarrassed you found out.
If he doesn’t , then he now knows and has all the information about the relationship he’s in.
This is a deal breaker for lots of people, and if your actually his friend you’ll tell him, anything less is a betrayal.
Send him screenshots and ask him if he knows about this. He may be ok with it. She may be cheating. Just be a bro.