This is the second guy now that I’ve talked to for a couple months everyday and then all the sudden something in their energy and the way they talk changes.
How am I supposed to feel secure and ok continuing to date people when I never know if they’ll just suddenly lose interest one day when everything was seemingly going great. I feel like I can’t trust anyone.
Now I’m in this weird position where I feel like if I confront him about it it will push him away completely cause of all these insecurities I’m feeling that I’m being too much or something.
Before him I had my first experience of getting stood up waiting at a bar, and a handful of other dates that didn’t go anywhere.
Now I feel more lonely than before, sad and confused and like my walls will be up if I meet someone else I connect with again. I want a relationship so bad but the heart ache to find my person and time to heal after each new person is draining.
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Yes. I’m struggling with this too and had a bad day this week because of it, but just vent it to someone and you’ll feel better. Never change for anyone and be yourself
Welcome to modern dating unfortunately. People suck, you just have to get lucky and find someone who doesn’t suck lol. It’s really sad that you have to trudge through literal football fields of shit just to find someone who isn’t crazy, it’s worthy of your time and has goals in life.