Hi everyone, new member to this thread but desperately need advice.
There’s a girl I’ve known for around 2.5 years now and I’ve always liked her but always ignored the feelings. I’ve liked other girls in the meantime and been rejected. About 2 weeks ago I messaged her and told her that I like her and then ignored my phone for a while fully expecting to get the “awww I think you’re nice but I like us as friends” message. Nope. She feels the same way. Great.
However she still lives with her ex and has a baby with him. We had a night out recently with just the two of us, had a great time. Then the two of us and a couple of friends went back to mine and the two of us spent the evening in my bed cuddling, being close to each other etc.
What do I do next? I don’t want to push her away.
Thanks everyone,
Danny
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Maybe discuss with her how things are going to go between you, the ex, and the baby. Don’t make it sound like you don’t want to deal with her baby and stuff (cause that’d be rude) but say something along the lines of “I really like you and want to be with you but I need to know how I would fit into your life, should we move forward in the relationship”.
Idk that’s just me (25f)