**Frustrations**
So I (19M) just got out of a relationship and my love/dating life has been very active. I don’t have problems getting girls or a girlfriend but I’ve been in 2 failed relationships in 2022 and Im emotionally tired. This year I’ve gotten broken up with and I’ve broke up with a girl. One relationship lasted 7 months and the other only lasted 1 month.
I’m sick of dating apps, I get a good amount of matches but I’ve never met a girlfriend off the apps/ i only got one hookup out of like 200 matches which is a terrible ratio. I’ve “talked” to like 10-15 girls this year (girls I’ve hung out with/ dated) and been in two relationships.
**Questions**
How do I distract myself from dating for like a few months into 2023? It’s easy to go without a relationship but to go without sex is tough. I’m done with dating apps and the only ways I really meet girls now is in real life (school/ work/ gym/ going out) or on Instagram.
I ask this because dating took up a lot of my time in 2022 and the only other things I do during my free time is go to the gym/ hangout with my 3 friends. When I was single during the year I hung out with like 2 girls a week and in relationships saw the girls like every day.
I just need to find myself and learn how to have fun/ enjoy life alone again, I honestly forgot how to.
2 comments
This is gunna sound harsh but get a hobby man. You’re using girls to fill time and that’s no bueno
One thing I always recommend is reading Ik it’s hard to start but really it’s a fantastic way to build discipline and kill some time.
Other than that if you are in college I would say look to get involved in the clubs/organizations around campus.