Stop dming me. This is not a thirst post. I will not be responding. You are gross.
Edit: he used a condom with me. It just won’t a great fit which is why I asked after. But I don’t have sex without.
I’ve hooked up with this guy before. He’s in his 30s, was fun but seemed to struggle with condoms, he’s too big for the normal skins but said he didn’t know his size… I stopped hooking up with him when he said he didn’t know what a cervix was.
Well horniness got the better of me so I invited him over again and again he had the condom issue and just ended up not cumming.
Well it was driving me crazy, so I asked him straight up, how does he not know which condoms fit him…
He never wears condoms. Never. And has had unprotected sex with 2 people without getting tested…
I am so pissed for not asking him sooner or on the moment. Small condoms can lead to risk of breakage and I live in an anti abortion state. This is a 30 year old man who should know better. Im just so pissed at myself. And at him.
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Not knowing a cervix is pretty stupid at his age. Red flag right there
I am sure it will all work out for you! It’s easy to get in your head of worry, but all we can do is learn and move on!
If it makes you feel any better I’ve had unprotected with 14 different people and always test negative (so far)
The thing is, you know you did a silly thing and can now learn from it, that’s not a bad thing! Get yourself tested and try not to get in your head about it. ❤️
Purchase a few different sizes to have on hand in case the situation presents itself again, what’s done is done, for the next time you will be better prepared and will go about it in a safer way.
Why are you mad at him? You could have insisted he use a condom or refuse to have sex with him.
How the hell does he not know what a cervix is? Is he an idiot?
Guy was a douche but come on. If a guy refuses to wear a condom then just say no, or else you’re just as responsible as him.
Can you get tested in another state? I have no idea I’m from germany but this might be an option. And also he has like no sexual intelligence at all. The way it is this wont work out.
My Size Condoms is a brand you can order on the internet. From the tiniest to the biggest dick can find a comfortable fitting condom. You can print their measuring kit too.
As a woman I have some condoms but will tell guys to use their favorite. If it’s not negotiable for you just say he has to use one. That way they can find the ones they like on their own. But a lot of people don’t know they come in different sizes. No need for name calling.
That’s why I keep condoms myself.
r/bigdickproblems would like to have a word with the guy.
Why do you have to wait 5 weeks to get tested?
Have you heard about womens condoms ? Its called femidome in Germany but not sure what the english names is… I use that instead of condoms now, i have a dick with a wider base and even condoms with a special fit tend to roll down, inserting them takes a bit of practice but its not so hard. Also big plus for me even if i get soft inbetween the condom isnt going anywhere. The plus if you are a woman is that you can put it in even a few hours before meeting up with someone. On the negative they are expensive, 2-3 euros each. And also cant believe this guy doesnt know what a cervix is 
Any guy that tells you they’re to big for a condom make a point and put it on your leg. Then tell them to fuck off. It may be tight and a bit uncomfortable but better than none
I never used condom in my entire life, save few cases from Tinder. Now I have a child, but I went on for quite a while without any problem. But I live in a rural area, this makes things easier.
Not sure why you’d be pissed at him. He’s in his 30s and has had sex u protected with two people, you used a condom, and that’s your basis for getting tested? I mean, yes sure get tested. But he did nothing wrong.
I’m just jealous I’ve got a small dick lol
Relax, people panic so fast these days