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\- I am sure everyone has similar experience. It is when you make a point about any random topic and then support your point using an example from your daily life. The person at the receiving end would not respond to your point, but instead he would ask you questions which led you to further self-discolouring.
\- It is a tricky one. I do find it polite to respond to other people questions. However, these questions are not considering the fact that I am not voluntary disclosing personal information. it feels intrusive and inappropriate to take advantage of my initial self-discosure so then weaponise it against me to illict further information.
I wonder if there is a name for such pattern. I want to learn how to detected in order to be more assertive when it happens.
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For example:
Me: I enjoyed the weather today outside in the park. We should go there together tomorrow. You will love it. The park during this weather is marvellous.
Snoopy: What time you were there? were you alone or with somebody? Do not tell me that you were alone by yourself. I am sure you had been with someone new.
Me: what are you talking about. I was telling about how great the park is and you turn it into interrogation. (However, I will answer all the snoopy question without noticing the interrogation)