A little background info: My ex and I ended a 9 year relationship may 1. this year. A relationship that gave me a lot of baggage which I have been working on. Also I have ADHD.
I am currently kinda dating a woman but I’m unsure of my feelings. We started texting for a month before we actually met and I was head over heels for her, and her the same.
But the first time we met, I noticed that my nervousness disappeared almost instantly, but I didn’t think nothing of it.
The second time we met, I noticed that I didn’t really have that feeling of being in love, like I did when we were texting.
The third and last time we met, I didn’t have those bubbly feelings again.
The feelings do reappear when we start texting again.
I don’t understand what is happening. We totally match on paper and we want the same things in life. The sex is amazing and what I have been craving.
I am very nervous that it could either be because I might not be attracted to her, even though she is beautiful, or that I’m not ready for a relationship, even though I really want it and I feel ready.
Anybody have some experience with this?
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It could be an early symptom of depression, this isn’t the right place to get accurate or appropriate answers. Talk to a psychologist, therapy should help you sort it out.