Sorry in advance if there’s any grammatical error but English is not my main language
I’ve been with my current gf for about 7 months and she has never cum
Is it normal? Has anyone had a similar experience?
I feel like she really loves me and maybe sex is the only aspect of the relationship that is just ‘good’ but not perfect as the other things.
She has cum with his ex boyfriend (when she was maybe 18, now she’s 21) in a two year relationship with just oral and fingering (they never had sex).
When we make sex she’s really into it but it’s not the same when I finger/eat her. Is it possible that she thinks about that ex during sex?
It’s not my first sexual relationship and I made my ex cum every time.
As the time goes by I feel worse and worse because I think she’s the girl of my life (and I believe that it’s the same for her) so I really want to bring sex in our relationship to the next level
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My gf rly struggles to cum without a strong vibration so she uses a vibrator I work on the inside of her, that way she cums easy
It’s not time you need, it’s communication. What is it going to take for her to get over the edge?
Ask her… She might need to assist with a hand, or need visual aid, or 100 million other things.
What makes sex great between two people? Communication, the ability to not let jealousy or ego get in the way, and teamwork. You have to be on the same page, so I suggest opening some dialog and exploring each others sexual feelings.
A lot of women struggle to cum with PIV. I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 2.5 years, he has been the only man to ever make me cum and it’s never been from PIV. My advice would be to focus on really sensual foreplay, plus an oral and fingering combo. Once she cums for you the first time the tension and anxiety will be lowered drastically and make it much easier for future tries.
With my current it happened the first time, and actually more or less every time since. While in missionary, probably due to some clitoral stimulation when I rub against her while doing PIV.
From pro bone, after I orgasmed, I continued for a bit and used my fingers to stimulate her clit.
Also with fingering and oral.
Been together for 3 months and things are going great! It was not like this with my previous relationship which lasted 15 years, people/women are all different. Communication is important.
Current gf, she came the first night we were together which was the first date.
Other gfs, anywhere from 10 sessions to 20. It all depends.