im seeing the dating wrapped trend on tiktok and i think it’s so crazy how people are going on 40+ dates ??
crazy isn’t the right word more like it’s out of the world for me right now
to preface im 21F and just graduated college in the spring
but this year i went on 1 first date and i ended up seeing him 2 more times and i think that’s it for the rest of the year for me
to be fair i think the tiktokers making these tiktoks are older than me
is there a point where i should be going on more dates ??? how many first dates are you guys going on ?
i’ve been pretty lucky and haven’t been on any bad dates but i average like 1 first date a year LOL but is it a numbers game ?
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If you meet people naturally through your life then you don’t have to play a numbers game, because you can ask someone on a date that you already know you like. Or I guess as a woman you could flirt with them and hope they ask you, but also you can just ask them yourself. That’s how I met my ex.
App dating on the other hand is a numbers game because you barely know the person you’re meeting up with, so you’re much less likely to turn out to be compatible.
I’m new to app dating and would like to go on a lot of dates but at the moment my profile isn’t good enough to get many matches. If it were better though, I’d like to go on one or two first dates a month.
29M here – I hope this doesn’t come across as bragging but I’ve been on a date once.
I’ve been single since April 2019 and honestly I would say i average 3 maybe 4 first dates a year (I’m 32M) all of which i usually initiate 9 times out of ten.
Going on, or have been on?
Been on lots and lots.
Right this minute? Started dating one person, and began dating another (they have gone on holiday and I’m leaving it up to them to message me when they get back). So two.
I’m a man in his mid twenties.