Okay let me not make this too long, essentially when I am going down on my girlfriend. She claims that it becomes too sensitive for it to be enjoyable after a while. She asks me to wait for a little and than go again, however it kills the whole buildup so I basically have to start at 0 again. She claims that she does not need to orgasm to be satisfied, but still it makes me feel good when she does. It always seems like I am on the right track, she squirts, is wet, responsive and claims to be satisfied but I just really wish that I could make her finish without her asking me to stop.
How exactly would I go about fixing this issue?
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Well, what is your technique? Prolonged Direct clitoral stimulation can indeed be too much. Try more of an indirect approach. Work around it… kiss and lick the area around the clit but not the clit itself. Slow down, be gentle, and TEASE. A good tease (breathing on, touching and then stopping, etc) can be so erotic as a buildup. Than the last few minutes can be more quick and direct to get her accross the finish line.
Start off gentle with light pressure. The more you build the more pressure. Add your fingers too if you can, I think it feels better when you do both at the same time. Pay attention to her body cues.
It took my man a little while to learn how to do it the right way, I definitely told him it was too sensitive when he was using too much pressure.
Can you get her to give some feedback as you’re doing it so can make it more enjoyable for her?
Can you get her to give some feedback as you’re doing it so can make it more enjoyable for her?