would you get a Massage from a Male Massage Therapist, why or why not?

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1. Yeah. Their pressure is more even and they don’t get tired as easily

2. If it’s just a normal, family friendly massage with nothing else attached to it? Sure, why not.

3. The happy ending hits different

4. No.

   I have no rational, mature justification for it. It always just felt ‘off’ to me, the idea makes me uncomfortable and I know I wouldn’t be able to fully relax with another dude giving me a rub down, the idea of a guy oiling me up makes my skin crawl.

   I know it’s dumb to feel that way, but I really can’t help it. I regularly get massages as part of sports rehabilitation and I’ve never been able to look at one of the guys and think “yeah, I bet he has strong hands, let’s do it.” Just awkward.

5. I do… Because my back hurts

6. I like my butthole the way it is, thank you.

7. Yea I just close my eyes

8. I prefer it tbh.

   In my experience, male massage therapists have bigger and warmer hands, more pressure when needed and generally know a male body better.

   I get a little uncomfortable with a female therapist in that – maybe it’s because I’m gay or something, but having a woman give me a massage just feels a little off. Its not sexual with a male therapist or anything creepy like that, but I can’t relax knowing I’m going to get brushed by boobs. It’s the same thing in a barbers – I hate that bit where they’re doing the side of my head and they use my shoulder as a boob-shelf.

9. No, I hate massages

10. if you’ve never had a massage, it’s easy to say no.

    once you’ve had one, and realize what you’ve been missing….you won’t give a flyin flip about who’s doing it.

11. I usually prefer male masseurs, because they are stronger, and can massage out the knots from my muscle. I tried female masseurs as well, but they simply can’t provide the same result.

12. I prefer massages from male therapists, most female therapists don’t have the finger strength for a deep tissue massage

13. I couldn’t care less who gives it, as long as it is a good massage.

14. Yes, in fact my masseuse is a 6’5 former D1 football player.

15. No, I love personal services from women, but I don’t like having men in my space. (My wife has even stronger feelings about not wanting women close to her.)

16. Yes. I like to think I can differentiate between a therapy and romance. My only 2 professional massages were by women, but they could benchpress me.

    I’d probably be more worried about an attractive younger female giving me a massage than a man. Even then any awkwardness would be my fault not hers.

17. Yeah, no issue. Had it multiple times already.

18. Yeah, I am planning on becoming a masseuse so hopefully people will want me lol

19. No because one time I did and…it moved

20. “I think it moved…”
    – George Costanza

21. Yeah as long as hes not looking me in the eyes during my happy ending… oh wait thats different….

22. I don’t feel comfortable getting a massage from anyone aside from a partner.

    I know it’s a job to them but it still feels like I’m forcing someone to touch my body when they’d rather not. What if they’re disgusted the whole time?

23. I have muscle tension and knot problems . Don’t care if the masseur is a woman or a man . If he or she is professional , license , and good at his or her job im ok whit it 👍

24. Yes because it’s a massage it’s not sensual.

25. I had one massage from a male physical therapist. I teased him when I asked him if he was married. He said no and I said do you want to be. He blushed and stopped massaging me and a girl came into to finish me. I laughed my ass off.

26. The happy ending doesn’t feel right.

27. Have before and will never do it again.

28. The question by itself implies that Massage Therapy has a sexual meaning!

29. I would not, being a male myself I would feel uncomfortable

30. OF course, if he’s a professional!

31. Why not?

32. Why not?

33. Sports massage after skiing? Absolutely (had one in Bulgaria this February)

    Relaxation massage? Probably not

34. I don’t care about male or female as long as they have strong enough hands to massage the shit out of me. (Not literally, for obvious reasons)

35. Sure. I had a coach give me a massage after each workout session when I was going to the gym. And I don’t think I’d have issues with a man giving me a therapeutic massage, or a massage to relax my body.

36. It makes the happy ending awkward, but equal opportunity, right?

37. If I’m paying for a massage for relaxation reasons I’d rather have a woman rub on me but If i need a sports massage probably a dude.

38. Trust him over a women tbh, nowadays you never know when you’re gonna get that little sa accusation, so it’s best to not take chances.

39. Yes, I paid him for a massage not to finger my butthole

40. No because I usually opt for the happy ending. I don’t want dudes touching my hydraulics.

41. It’s only awkward if he’s the one who pops a boner.

42. A happy ending is a happy ending.

    😬

43. Fuck yeah. Literally would prefer it. Get in there bro, i have some shit that hurts real bad. Make it better.

44. I’m gay, so yes, I love having men rub all over me 😜

    But also, men tend to be stronger and know a man’s body better, so if I’m going to get a massage, happy ending or not, I want that.

45. Yes,

    I am not gay.

    He is a professional.

    And I am in pain.