Why my bf always make me be on the top when we have sex

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2. I love my partner on top, I love seeing her facial expressions and tits bounce, really turns me on.

3. Because he likes it. You don’t have to do everything that he likes all the time though? If you want him to switch it up then tell him. If he won’t listen to what you want when you’re having sex then you should find someone else to have sex with that actually listens to you and wants to please you. Your pleasure and wants are just as important as his

4. He probably just likes it. I know mine does. You can always ask him. If you wanna switch just let him know that, too. I don’t mind being on top but sometimes I worry it’s boring so I make us switch it up.

5. When he never wants to change the positions, it sounds like he is lazy and don’t want to do any work.

6. Ask him. Reddit is not making you be on top. If you are uncomfortable with that position then communicate that too. If you are mature enough to have sex then you should be mature enough to have a conversation. It’s for the betterment of your sex life.

7. Must be the view.

8. I enjoy it because the view is amazing and because I can last while she gets what she wants.

9. 1) he likes it
   2) if he doesn’t do much outside of that time then he’s lazy/tired

10. lazy 🤷🏽‍♀️

11. As a guy, there seems to be one position where we feel most comfortable/in control, and most likely to be able to let go and enjoy it. That can be different with different partners. But whatever it is, we’re going to gravitate toward it.

    Also, the view is important, too. A woman on top is great because you get face, boobs, hips, and legs. And you can touch her *anywhere*.