My buddies got a girlfriend Im happy for him but he posts her on his story even though he knows I’m going through a rough time mentally due to me being lonley I’d like to ask him to stop posting her but I don’t want to be an asshole what should I do ?

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  1. Stop watching his story if it makes you feel down. No right to tell him not to post about it if he wants to. Hide it and don’t even tell him.

  3. I’m sorry but you have no right to ask him to take his post of him & her down. Very simply take yourself off social media or that particular network if you don’t want to see it. I hope you sort yourself out though. 🙂

  4. You can try talking to him about how you feel. I recommend avoiding asking him to change his behavior, since this will put him on the defensive. Instead, focus on describing how you feel when seeing the pictures. You can use “I statements” to share how seeing the pictures makes you feel without blaming or judging. If you can do this calmly and confidently, this will help your friend understand that you’re having a tough time and are asking for his support, instead of trying to control what he does.

  5. Geez!!! Get over yourself that is nuts!! Sorry your struggling but that’s not a reasonable request

  6. Just don’t look. Looking at his story requires voluntary action by you. If you don’t want to see it, don’t look. But don’t expect the world to revolve around you.

  7. Yeah you shouldn’t do that. He’s not responsible for your issues. You should see a therapist.

  8. Aww baby you need to take this post down sweaty bless its little pink heart hun oh no

  9. He is allowed to post anything he wants. It’s your choice to unfollow him so you do not have to see his content.

  10. Yup this is a you problem. You do not get to dictate what others do because of your feelings. It’s your job to protect yourself. You say in your post you’re happy for him but your not. Time to stop being a little bivh and work on you.

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