I guess I come off as a super mean intimidating guy when really I just mind my own business, stay to myself & observe the area. Also, I stand out literally anywhere I go, from big warehouses to small rooms, I’ll always be the person everyone wants to look at. People rarely make eye contact with me, if they do it’s only for a split second maybe two. Im always getting tested by somebody like they want to see what I’ll do or what I’ll do. But in reality im a cool guy if people would give me a chance, sure i may not smile a lot but who just walks around smiling from ear to ear? Lol If anyone can help with some advice it’ll be greatly appreciated, this problem bugs me in public & even with my immediate family in my house. Should I just accept that im an intimidating guy?
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I am intimidating; 6’6”, 250lbs, and a gym rat. The answer is to smile. You don’t have to smile constantly but it helps. Smile when you look at people. It takes time to get used to but you will notice that just smiling more will lift your mood and draw people to you.