My husband and I have been married almost a week, our wedding night was my first time. This morning he had me get on all fours on the edge of the bed. He said behind me on the floor and entered me. He went slow (thank God! His penis is BIG.) and I adjusted to him inside me. This position was amazing.
As I got closer, he reached his hand under me and stimulated my clit. Between his thrusts and this stimulation I ORGASMED!!! I never lost consciousness, but I shook uncontrollably and moaned so loud.
Is this a normal orgasm? Of the ones I’ve had in the last week, this was amazing! How can I get this kind more often?
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Try doing the same, and similar things. Some will be better than others, but it sounds like you have a lot to explore. Congrats!
This sounds like a very normal and very good orgasm, congratulations! You can get more by just having more sex, the more used to the sensations you get, the more you’ll be able to ride that wave of pleasure to orgasm easily. If you enjoy clit stimulation, you could play with it in positions where his hands are busy, or maybe look into a vibrator or wand for more controlled and constant stimulation. A large proportion of women report that they have to have clitoral stimulation during penetration to cum, so it’s not at all unusual and it’s great that your husband is willing to “lend a hand.”
Have fun!
Yay you! Repeat as often as you like. I’m genuinely happy for you. Congratulations
He needs to focus more on pleasing you. My girlfriend is a pro at faking…and it would hurt me if she faked it all the time with me. Honestly? I don’t ejaculate each time we have sex because she doesn’t have la petite mort (the little death) each time we have sex. When i make love…i love HARD. Like every time we have sex she should not be able to form sentences, i do want her to have the little death. And it makes me sound weird like i want her to die a little each time but unless she’s drowning in extacy i have a hard time reaching climax
Put this position/combo in your bag of goto-sexual-activities. Revisit it as often as you like!
Congratulations! keep experimenting and communicating it only gets better from here.
For someone who has only been having sex for less than a week, and you have already had multiple orgasms, with one of them being absolutely mind-blowing, you are indeed very lucky! You found something that works well, that will almost always feel very good. Try some variations so it doesn’t get boring. Our bodies aren’t machines, so it won’t be quite so mind-blowing every single time, but you are already on your way to a better sex life than most people ever experience. 🤗
Keep your hubby happy and tell him he triggered it. Ask for more. Yes, it’s normal.
You just had a good one, that’s all. Your husband is a lucky man. Wish you many more.
It’s kind of like the directions on a Shampoo Bottle: Lather, Rinse, Repeat!
Tell him that it was that amazing, and he will try to do it again…
Try learning what it is you love, masturbate then you can guide him, if need be,
Have more sex, there are lots of ways to orgasm, practice makes perfect kkkkk
Penetrative sex with clitoral stimulation is basically the cheat code for great orgasms. You can also achieve this in missionary by having him angle his cock up a bit so that the shaft grinds against your clit up and down as he penetrates you. I think it is officially called the pelvic alignment technique or something, at least that’s what folks on this sub have told me when I’ve mentioned it being awesome for my wife previously.
I think generally orgasm quality is a function of technique, arousal level and build-up.
Getting the best orgasms is going to be a matter of finding something that makes you cum (so for you, it’s simultaneous clit stimulation *and* penetration, potentially from an angle that works from behind), something that gets you very aroused (fantasy, dirty talk, circumstances, hormones), and getting a good “ramp up”, which could mean edging a bit before letting go.
If I want to give my partner a particularly good orgasm, those are generally the things I think about.
After you’re over the “honeymoon period”, you’ll have to find more levers to help you recreate the same level of arousal you’re getting to from “having sex for the first few times”.
There are vibrators for clit stimulation you can use also. My wife uses one every time we are intimate together, it is almost a requirement. We own probably 4 or 5 different kinds. I love her orgasms when she has them like yours. You can safely assume that your husband also loves that you orgasmed so hard.
Anyone who could guarantee what you had could make a fortune.
Wonder if you had a cervical orgasm…