Im not a terrible rider… I never get any complaints but I never feel like I’m doing it right. One of my friends explained it like popping my butt up and down with some good strokes. Just trying to improve my game 😉

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  4. Guy here. When my wife rides, it’s about her. She does more of a grinding than in and out motion. I will flex my stomach and bladder muscles and give her something firmer to grind on. And when she gets tired, I will pull and push her hips to help with the motion.

    Feeling her come on top of me is worth every second of it and it’s super fulfilling. If I don’t come during all of this, once she recovers a bit, I’ll move into another position and quickly finish.

  5. If you want to be more intimate & kiss him, being close right on top of his chest, your hands can be in his hair, or on the sides of his face, allowing your butt to bounce up and down on his cock, don’t move your hips, it’ll help balance yourself. If you don’t want to be intimate, ride him upright & it’s all about tempo if anything. Def have fun with it whether it’s you putting your hands behind you on his thighs or in front on his chest.

  6. I sometimes squat which gives me better range of motion. However I can only last so long like this due to muscle fatigue.
    Also I’ve noticed moving my knees closer toward his chest while in a standard riding position can give me better control.

  7. Honestly what helped me was going to the gym and doing squat exercises. I feel like now because I’ve built that muscle up I don’t get tired as fast. Also discovered through a book that you can hit the G Spot in that position. So more motivation ! Do what feels good for you 🙂

  8. Imagine you’re moving your hips away and towards the guy with the shape of his dick. DO NOT just go up and down, move with the curvature of your vagina and his dick

    I hope this makes sense lmfaooo

  9. Grab your boobs, let your hair down, lay your hand on their chest, put your fingers in their mouth and touch your clit afterwards, and tbh I kinda like getting slapped in the face from time to time

  11. I just do a lot of grinding really. I’ll sit more upright and play with my boobs and grind slowly and deep. Then usually the guy will pull me down and play with them himself and I’ll keep grinding and lean down and do some dirty talk in their ear before leaning upright again and putting my hands on his chest while I mix up the speed.

  12. If you have a booty made sure your in reverse cow girl positions….can’t speak for all men but I love to see the waves in that booty bounce with a glimpse of asshole…. 🤷🏽‍♂️

  13. Oh i have the same problem
    Unfortunarely i get nothing out from riding, so i only do it for the guy and i never know if i do it right or not.

  14. This is going to sound silly, but learn to twerk lol. It’s a game changer and helps with stamina since you’re not using your whole body, just your hips.

  16. I thank all of you who have commented so far, as it will give some more insight for my wife to read when I’ll show her all your wonderful tips later. Thanks again 👍

  19. of you want to focus on your pleasure, slide back and forth like you are grinding on him while leaning backwards, this will allow their penis to hit your gspot. if you want to focus on their pleasure, place your hands or elbows above their shoulders and lean down close enough to kiss them, then twerk…basically, up and down. I actually didn’t know how to twerk until I did cowgirl in this way and that’s how I learnt.

  20. How I see it there are 3 ways to ride.

    1. Sitting up straight and moving up and down with your whole body.
    2. Leaning forward on your hands and bouncing your ass up and down.
    3. Leaning forward on your hands (or further down – you can even lay on him) and grinding back and forth – this last one is amazing, and it will rub your clit as well.

    Mastering number 2 and especially 3 and being able to almost mix them is when you have become a master at riding.

  21. Put your hands on his chest. Scratch his chest a lil. Grind on it. Just work your hips around. Gyrate. Lean forward and come up just a lil bit. Almost a tease. Also before insertion. Grind on him and lean toward so the tip of his dick is just barely touching your pussy….I looove that. Also let him pump from the bottom. That’s so fun

  22. It’s difficult to explain, but I usually put my hands on either side of his head and move just my hips up and down without moving my torso. It helps if he puts his hands on my hips and moves me how he likes 🙂 helps with my core getting tired haha

  23. i take control when i do it, he’s just happy to have me on top and my tits in his face (also the perfect time for some nipple sucking if you’re into that). i like to almost create a wave when grinding, go slow and purposeful.. i totally loose myself in it! i’ve found that if i do that while also slightly swirling my hips around i can begin to squirt 😻 which he loves lol

  24. If you are doing it to make him cum. Make sure that you are actually gliding up and down on his cock. Not just rocking back and forth.

  25. Just chipping in to say that moving quickly up and down only makes my partner come more quickly and the game is over 🙁 so I make sure to enjoy my time up there with some slow strokes up and down. Well sometimes he’ll also come quickly this way. Men are easy to send off rails aren’t they

  26. Find a position that is sustainable for you. That might be dependent on your partner!

    For bigger guys, I like to ride on my feet. I use their thighs or chest for balance, and I do grinding thrusts forward.

    For guys with a smaller waist, I can ride on my knees and really grind my clit into them. I can bounce and lean different ways. If I lean back, it makes a tighter fit that feels amazing, but I can only do short strokes or he’ll pop out. If I lean forward, I can do long strokes.

    They really like it when I rub my clit while grinding or riding. Makes me feel good and they like the show!

    When I wanna really go for it, I’ll bounce up and down. It kills my thighs haha so I don’t do it for too long. More of a finisher move or in short bursts to switch it up.

    I like to start on top since it doesn’t get me off. It’s a nice warm up for both of us.

  27. My gf throws ass really well in cowgirl. Like she be moving her cheeks be moving up and down without me doing anything and she leans into me and keeps her hands on my chest.

  28. If your asking about going up and down as opposed to grinding, then it’s also more physically demanding. When my wife was young she found it too hard on her quads and couldn’t maintain it for long.

    Putting her shins/ankles up on my thighs/legs helped her get more leverage and it worked a bit like doing knee push ups, but with decreased ROM, and after a couple of years when she tried again with her legs down the sides she now had the leg strength to be able to do it.

    Don’t know if this applies to everyone, but it certainly worked for her. Alternatively just hit the gym and build up leg strength that way.

  29. Its all about balance, leverage, and rhythm- for both partners. If you can find all those, everything else falls into place.

  30. Having the guy sit on a kitchen chair or the couch is nice. When you have him sit on a chair, your feet are on the ground and you can hold the back of the chair which gives you more power to ride.

  31. Cowgirl is my favorite position because it gives her total control of exactly how it feels for her. It seems to be the easiest position for her to get the exact angles and depths to pleasure her the most. Plus I’m on the smaller side of average, and this gives me better penetration. I also LOVE the view, and its the easiest position for me to suck on her nips while she rides me. And when she leans back and moans… 🔥🔥🔥

    Just move around and find what feels best for you. Take your time. If he is not all about you, then he is not for you.

  33. When my wife is on top, she does a lot more grinding and rotating her hips. Usually she ends up grabbing her wand and finishing (because ladies cum first). If she gets tired, i pull her close to me, plant my feet on the floor and power fuck her so she can have a break. So far no complaints. Lol.

  34. Hold onto the bed frame to give yourself something to push onto with your hands as you do it, it really helps with stability and you can go faster

  35. ride on your knees. find whatever angle works best for you – lean forward, back or sit upright. hook your feet under his butt/legs, gives you better control (for bouncing up and down) or at least it does for me. if he has his hand on your hips, you can get into a good rhythm

  36. So my favorite thing and has been a golden trick for me is instead of being on your knees- get on your feet and squat down. Use your leg muscles to keep you bouncing. It also gives a great angle for your partner to actually see themselves go in and out of you and ideally cum run back down. Super hot! Hopes this helps! #girlshelpgirls

  37. My girl used to ride me reverse cowgirl because my cock has a downward curve to it so she would position herself in a way that my tip would thrust against her G-spot. It had much better effect on her when we went raw/no condom. She did a mix of moving back and fourth, round and round with her hips as well as going up and down. It’s all about what feels good for you because at the end of the day, we guys love watching you let go of yourselves on our dicks

  38. If you lean back too far it bends my dick down painfully.

    Be careful not to have the penis pop out and then slam back down. That’s a common cause of penile fractures. If you’re going to go fast be sure that you’re not riding up too far.

    Otherwise have fun and do what makes you feel good.

  39. You’re going to need core strength, strong thighs, and stamina. If you are trying to stimulate him, you want your calves and knees on the bed in a way that allows you to use your knees as a hinge to hpver pver him while you move your pelvic back and forth. The movement comes from your pelvic, but you won’t get a good range of motion if you sit directly on top of him.

    You will want to sort of float a few inches above him using your knees. I usually put my hands on the headboard or my boobs/body. I try not to bear any of my weight on his body. Reach back and caress his balls if he’s into that. I do let my butt slap on his thighs as I go, but you have to be able to pick it back up.

    Once you are floating above him, slide the penis in(making sure everything is adequately lubricated first). Stay floating above him, and it will give you enough room to slide your pelvic back and forth on his penis, like when you are in any other position. In and out, but don’t let the penis come all the way out. Keep it wet and warm. Start slow, guide his hands to wherever you want him to touch you. Make eye contact or close your eyes. Give him a little bit of a performance while slowly rocking your hips so he is going in and out at a steady pace.

    I like to go slow until he climaxes. That can be a little too tortuous, and of course, it depends on your endurance, too. So once you notice him getting into it, you can gradually increase the pace, but don’t compromise your form! Focus on the in and out and staying above him, not sitting on him. Clench your vaginal walls of you can. That should get you the desired result.

    If you want it to be a bit more pleasurable for you, you can put a vibrator below you or touch your own clit. All part of the performance.

  40. I struggle riding because I’m an asthmatic babe and have little confidence but grinding rather than bouncing has always been better for myself and whoever I’m on top of.

    If the bed is bouncy it doesn’t work in my favour, so moving to floor can be easier.

    Leaning backwards can press against your g-spot, or if you prefer more intimacy leaning forwards for a kiss can be quite sweet.

    Don’t overthink it, have fun and make sure you’re enjoying it as much as they are.

  41. I do this thing where I go down slow, then squeeze lightly on the way back up. Helps keep blood flowing for him and drives him crazy. He doesn’t seem to mind if I do it slower, so long as it’s still in a rhythm. Not just straight up and down, get some wiggling in there too, but be careful when coming back down, as bending can be excruciating for him.

  42. There’s a way to grind that’ll still make his dick slide in and out and if that isn’t the best feeling for us both then I dunno… but we both get a lot out of it.

    Rest on knees and elbows/forearms and just move back and forth. Can be quite intimate in that position too. Other way I love being on top is us both sitting. Easier in that position if both put a bit of effort in

  43. I have two main methods depending on who’s pleasure you’re going for:

    If you’re going for (mostly) yours, you can stay low and grind.

    If you’re going for (mostly) his, prop yourself up on your feet like you’re doing a low squat, and bounce. This is admittedly exhausting, but it helps if he can do some of the work (either using his arms to lift you, or letting you hover while he thrusts).

  44. I do more of a grinding motion when I’m the one in control(?) and it’s more about my pleasure, my partner loves to watch me because he likes it when I feel good.

    But also my partner will grab my arms down to my side and be the one thrust into me and it feels really great, sometimes I lean forward and there’s kissing that happens or I grab into the bed frame to give him some space to thrust if that makes sense??

  45. It’s all in the hips; grind and twerk. Another tip is laying down rather than sitting up. Ya know the sleep position when you have one leg straight and the other angled? Have your partner(s) lay on the near end of the bed and then lay on them in that sleeping position. Then, proceed to riding til you can’t no more

  46. I started “practicing” in private, on my own. My hips were pretty weak, which made riding so much work that I couldn’t really enjoy myself.
    It sounds weird, but pantomiming on my own helped me gain flexibility and balance, so that I could enjoy the actual act when the time came.

    Squats and working out helped, but the actual practical application helped me figure out what movement felt comfortable and natural, which really helped when I actually went for a ride.

  47. If you want to bounce, the key is to get on your toes. If you rely on your knees, you can’t go very long. Trust me… it’s only a slight movement once you’re up on your toes.

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