What is your opinion about being a virgin at 25?

28 comments

1. 25 is nothing, plenty of people in 20s 30s n beyond are virgins

2. neutral. it doesn’t make you better than anyone, but it’s not anything to be frowned upon either. there’s no reason for people to say shit to someone for taking things at their pace

3. Being a virgin at 25 means nothing *at all* except that you haven’t had sex yet. It doesn’t say anything else about the individual

4. As long as you haven’t met someone who made you rip off their clothes just by looking at you, it’s clear it wasn’t the right moment to explore your sexuality.

   Also, it must be a consensual act. You’d rather be a virgin than someone who hates sex because of a horrible first experience. Make sure to find someone who makes you feel safe and comfy, don’t put pressure on you because it looks like everyone’s doing it.

5. No opinion. It happens when it happens. When you find someone you want to make it happen with, and they want the same.

6. I don’t have one. If someone wants to not have sex till marriage, then ok, so what? Who is it hurting that they made this decision? NOBODY. That’s who.

7. I would be thinking “What have you been doing with your life that you’re still a virgin at 25”

8. It all depends on whether you are happy being a virgin. Looking back, I wish I hadn’t waited for my “definite man” before I lost it. After I split out from a long marriage, I realised that I had, frankly, missed out on something good.

9. I have no opinion about it.

10. I wasn’t, so I have no thoughts in that regard, but I don’t give a shit if someone else is. Honestly, I don’t think about other people’s sex lives (or lack thereof) at all.

11. I don’t really have any opinions on that. Like it’s just the person’s business. I guess I’d just hope they’re content with it whether it be a choice they made or just how things ended up working out.

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13. You do you, its a non-issue. Being a virgin at any age is just that: being a virgin🤷‍♀️

14. Your either very unfortunate looking or a liar.
    Oh or someone who think anal is not a virginity thing….. sorry but my truth.
    Otherwise I have no idea!

15. It is not a matter of opinion. You are or you are not. If it is tour choice and if you feel confortable about it, it is no One bussiness.

16. I have no opinion on when to give up your virginity. But Coming from someone who was a male virgin until the age of 21, it really doesn’t matter. However, let me caution you, don’t expect that from your partner. Don’t partner up with someone who expects you to know what you’re doing and never ask how many other people they have been with. Buy a book and read as much as you can in how to please your partner. After that have fun.

17. Nothing. It just means that person doesn’t want to have sex or coincidentally haven’t gotten to it yet. Which is perfectly understandable and not at all weird.

18. Sex does not have an expiration or best by date. When or if you’re enthusiastically ready and with an equally enthusiastic partner, then enjoy it. You do not need to have sex to be a complete human.

19. Don’t worry about it. Jesus’s mother was still a virgin, even after she got pregnant, so you’re in good company.

20. That is way more common than most people think and is perfectly fine. Waiting for a suitable partner is a great plan.

21. I think, sadly, a lot of people care too much about being a virgin or not. It doesn’t really mean or say anything about the person at all

22. Your decision

    Edit: 16m but still

23. It’s none of anyones business, that is not the person you are referring to.
    Who am I or who are strange people to judge someone because of this? 🙂

24. that somthing is wrong, you can listen to all the people here telling you its okay but objectivly speaking your body is ready to produce kids at around 12-16 , cultural wise you have missed the social aspect of ever falling in love ( not that its necessary to lose virginity) but on the other hand if trauma or religion stood in your way its understandable everything else you seem to have issue, sorry for being blunt but in my eyes thats reality

25. Loosing V card is not a race. If you want to, do it when you ready and when you find right person. If you don’t want to then it’s also perfectly fine

26. Nothing I finally lost my virginity at 31. Only 3 of the guys I have ever been with were good at kissing or make out or sex.

27. What’s YOURS? Because it’s the only one that should matter.
    But, for me, it’s okay, unless it bothers you (for any reason but the stereotypes).

28. Indifference mostly