Basically I have this crush on this girl in one of my classes and she’s also one of my friend’s friend. So I told my friend to ask her about me. She just said that I was pretty cute n stuff so my friend told me to try talking to her or take her out. But I have a history of getting bullied (used to be pretty chubby) and i have since then gotten social anxiety. Not sure if that is the reason or if it’s just because I’m shy but even when I get the chance I just can’t get myself to talk to her. Please motivate me or give me some advice
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Females everywhere have a tendency to choose mate from from those who ask them out. Males on the other hand can choose to ask out anyone on planet earth. Take advantage of that!
Motivation is a creative impulse, so if you don’t have a how-to idea you see in your mind aka flow of images you can feel good about, chances are you might get frozen as you approach or worse forget how to speak. My advice is to learn to relax first and let the right situation come to you – a situation you feel good about. Then you can make a confident move.