best friend [f21] thinks i [f19] flirted with her crush

so two weeks ago that friend invited me and 4 other people over. her “crush” being one of them.

i’ve never met that guy before and i only knew 2 out of the 5 ppl there, so being anxious about socializing i drank because i know that gets me to talk and be way more friendly than i usually am.

so end of the night, i thought everything went really great and i was really happy that i got along with all them and surprised that i didn’t feel like hiding in the bathroom even once which is awfully rare for me.

while everyone was getting ready to sleep i noticed her locking herself up with the two other girls in the bathroom and i thought that was awfully weird and immediately thought “that’s it. i fucked up”

i didn’t really know what i had done because no one had mentioned something all night long. my first guess was, being drunk, i talked way too loud and probably embarrassed her every time i told her something about him (things like omg you should definitely kiss him, are you sure you don’t want to be alone with him? etc etc)
I waited for like 15 minutes, but they still weren’t coming out so i just decided to not think about it and wait for tomorrow.

waking up i see that she’s already dressed, that the two other girls are also getting ready and by hearing them talk i get that they’re apparently going shopping.
obviously i IMMEDIATELY know something is still really wrong but i don’t say anything because now the three of them are ignoring me and they locked themselves up AGAIN in the bathroom.
feeling very uncomfortable i just got ready as fast as i could and left to take the bus.

ok so nows where it gets confusing.

four hours later i get a “we should talk” text, and YES PLEASE that’s all i wanted.
she then proceeds to tell me that i apparently flirted with him all night long, exaggerating everything i was doing and that i kept following him “like a lovesick puppy”, adding that she felt uncomfortable all night long and that everyone noticed it too.

so i immediately apologize for making her feel that way because i never wanted to ruin the night and making her uncomfortable in her own house.
i then proceed to explain that i get her point, i hear and understand what she’s telling me but that i truly was not flirting with him and that i honestly acted the same way that i would’ve with her or any of my friends.
i tried to ask her why no one told me anything about it during that night and why she waited until i got home and couldn’t do anything about it anymore to tell me everything, but she just discarded it with a “i wasn’t going to make a scene in front of everyone”.
and sure that makes sense, but we went ALONE two times to the bathroom and she still didn’t say a damn word about it??

the conversation goes on but we’re honestly repeating the same things so i tell her one last that i hear what she’s telling me, that i’m sorry for causing her pain and that it was unintentional but that i feel like shes asking for a solution when i truly don’t have one, right now i can’t do anything about what happened.
to which she answers “yeah i know i wasn’t expecting you to find one” and i left her on read bc wtf was i supposed to answer to that.

so two weeks passed and i don’t know what the hell i should do. she didn’t block me from any socials but none of them are talking to me.
i honestly don’t even feel like sending another apology text because i feel like she’ll treat it just like the other one. (i know apologizing doesn’t mean i get to be forgiven, that’s not the point, but i don’t think it deserves to be answered to that harshly)
+ to be completely honest i’m also a bit mad at her bc i still can’t understand how after all those years that we’ve known each other she’s able to think i willingly did something that disgusting to her.

my biggest problem is that i feel like even by apologizing or if i’m lucky enough and she ends up forgiving me, i just don’t think things will be the same.

should i text her?? how do i even ask how things are between us?
or should i just consider our friendship screwed and let it go ??

TLDR: she thinks i flirted with him when i honestly just talked and acted the way i would’ve done with anyone. i apologized. it’s been two weeks and none of my friends are talking to me. should i text, apologize again, or just consider our friendship screwed?