I’m (29f) and my ex is (26m), so we were together for almost 5 years we lived together for over 3 years and have a dog together. Back in October we had an argument which to me wasn’t that serious. He then packed his things and just left, didnt say anything but a text saying “sorry for everything”…. we’ve been having some issues but who doesn’t ? We’ve had worst issues before, but this time he just left…. for the past year ive been paying the bills since he quit his job. I feel like i supported him through everything and for him to leave me like that left me heartbroken and with more questions than answers. He still checks on my social media and Im so tempted to message him and tell him to come back… i just dont understand how he could leave so suddenly without even talking to me. It was 5 YEARS !!!! My heart has been broken ever since he left and I just dont know if I should fold and message him ? Or if I should just move on… 😢
Tl;dr , In a relationship for 5 years. We got into an argument and my bf packed his things and left with no notice or any type of anything. I dont know if I should attempt contacting him and try to talk or if I should just move on.
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So, he didn’t have a job. You were paying the bills. He is likely depressed and anxious, and feels less of a man for not providing for you and your dog. What was the argument about? Was it in anyway emasculating?