18m i like to have sex and i have a healthy drive but none of the super kinky stuff appeals to me. like i read about people who blindfold their partner or handcuff them. dirty talk during sex doesn’t appeal to me either. ive only ever had one sexual partner and she didn’t mind but could this possibly negatively affect future relationships?
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I think as long as you are attentive and communicate well with your partner during sex this shouldn’t be a problem. Plenty of people are vanilla.
Intimate relationships are mostly about compatibility and communication. The right person will understand your kinks or lack thereof, and you’ll compromise and meet in the middle or agree you’re not sexually compatible and make a decision on whether that is a deal breaker or not.
Not everyone wants simple sex and not everyone wants to be tied to a wall and whipped – the fun is finding the person that matches you and will learn and grow with you.
Tldr – it won’t be a problem if you communicate and are honest with yourself and others!
My kinks didn’t develop until later in life. It often starts to happen when you are with someone in a long term relationship and you are looking for ways to keep things interesting and exciting. At 18, I am not surprised you don’t have a feel for any kinks yet.