Title is essentially the question.
I’ve not been able to cum with another person since my first partner who berated me for cumming fast, so I started wanking each morning to make sure I could keep up with her, then she cheated on me with a lot of people and…then ever since I’ve been unable to cum with others, something I’m talking through with a therapist, annoyingly slowly as it’s all tied into some other PTSD related issues.
Since then, I’ve had around 10-15 sexual partners, and each ones had a different reaction, some accept it and move on and others have taken it very personally, as if it’s a sign I don’t like/love them or find them attractive (had confirmation of this).
Got more to it, but anyway, that’s some context.
How would you feel? Has anyone had to deal with this issue as a guy?
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I’ll be honest, don’t like it when a guy can’t come during sex. Yes it doesn’t make you feel good, makes you feel like they aren’t turned on or enjoying it enough. Also makes me think they have a death grip and watch too much porn or masturbate too much. BUT all that being said, if they told me up front about it that it was a psychological issue they were working through in therapy, I would be understanding and receptive to that. So I think communication is key to avoid any issues.