I (19f) have been with my boyfriend (21m) for 5 months now. But it’s getting to the point where I can’t handle it anymore. We’re just getting off of a break because of things we dealt with in the past. After we came back, things are just different. He’s constantly trying to gaslight me to stay with him. He showed up to my house unannounced to talk to me and was balling the whole time and it honestly traumatized me in a way I can’t explain. My feelings for him went away a while ago but I don’t have the heart to tell him. I can’t be myself around him without be scared he’s gonna blow up on me and start crying and yelling at me. I don’t want to cause any heartbreak for him, but I’m not happy and I feel like it needs to be done. But I don’t know how to. If anyone has any suggestions or advice as to how to do it, please tell me. I’m desperate.