Hey , I’m 32female . I joined the local gym a couple of months ago . And I had one session with a personal trainer . I thought he was cute . I have his work number and sometimes he views my what’s app stories . I have tried online dating and it’s just awful , everyone that talks to me wants casual but I want something meaningful and a relationship.
My question is , how do I ask my gym instructor out for a coffee ?
Here is the complicated part because of my culture I am not allowed a boyfriend . So if me and him did date , it would have to be on the down low , for example we can’t just go for a date in the local coffee shop or a walk in the park . For me it’s complicated unfortunately. In the past all of my boyfriends have been very understanding of this and accommodating.
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You should ask him and he’ll understand this as well
I used to be a trainer at a commercial gym and it wasn’t uncommon at all that someone I previously trained would text me (or vice versa if I felt it was appropriate). Assuming he finds you attractive, I’m sure he would be more than happy to hangout with you outside of the gym
You don’t. He’s not interested. You are his client
Whatsapp has stories??
Imagine if the genders were reversed, I’d love to see how the comments would go