Should I be worried that my GF of 6 years never cum from penetration only. Extra info, She cums multiple times (like really many times) during each sex Session we ever had because we incorporate other sex aspects.
I am starting to get worrid/feeling small as this is my first experience, all my ex’s could cum from penetration only. You can already tell she has a high sex drive, and I could tell she is super happy with our sex life, she always mentions this. In the beginning, I thought this will change as I get to know her body better but it didn’t, I feel like a failure. She doesn’t mention it as a problem, only one time she just told me she doesn’t enjoy penetration alone. We are discussing marriage and now I can’t stop thinking about this.

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  1. I hear your concern and understand why this is making you feel uncertain. It’s important to remember that people experience pleasure differently, and there isn’t one way of having sex that makes everyone cum. The fact that your partner enjoys other aspects of sex shows that she is enjoying intimacy with you – and it sounds like she values the time you spend together in a meaningful way. I suggest talking openly to her about what feels good for both of you, exploring different activities together, and communicating your own wants/needs in order to make the most out of any intimate moment with her. Above all else, focus on positive reinforcement so that your interactions stay healthy & consensual!

  2. This is quite common so I wouldn’t beat yourself up over it. I’m currently reading a book which states that only 25% of women can orgasm from penetration alone. Most women are much more likely to cum from things like clitoral stimulation.

    I’d suggest that you don’t worry about how she cums, only that she does.

  3. It is super common for women to not be able to orgasm from penetration alone, I can’t either.

    And it has nothing to do with size either.

  4. Most women can’t orgasm from penetration alone and often times it doesn’t really feel that great. Sometimes it feels neutral, like there is just something moving inside you, sometimes it feels good and sometimes it feels great and SOME can in those instances orgasm. But not everyone.

  5. This is pretty normal for a lot of women. I wouldn’t think twice about it. They said themselves that penetration alone doesn’t really do much for them.

  6. My wife of 28 years has never cum from PIV sex. BTW only 25% of woman can. This is not a reflection you just a physiological reality. Do not obsess about this and let it get in the way of your potential marriage to her.

  7. Thank you for bringing this subject to the surface, recently I also started to think about this subject and was seeking for answers. Me and my gf also have a very satisfactory sex life however she’s the first girl who never orgasmed/cummed from PIV. I couldn’t stop thinking about it. Especially when in my case I had sex with other women and men feels great when they actually orgasm in my dick and the boost of confidence that gives. So you’re not alone. I even thought for long time if I should pump so I could increase in girth to give her that “filled” feeling you know.

  8. >all my ex’s could cum from penetration only.

    I’m sorry to break it to you, but some or all of them were faking it.

  9. I don’t know how many ex’s you’ve had but it’s statistically improbable that they have all orgasmed from penetration only. I have no doubt they may have made you think they were orgasming, but only about 25% – 30% of women do.

  10. I can come easier from penetration with a small-average dick than a big one, so I really wouldn’t worry about size. And I only can sometimes and its not got much to do with what he’s doing. And most women can’t.

  11. Most women get off primarily or exclusively from clit stimulation, for the same reason that most men get off primarily or exclusively from dick stimulation.

    It’s completely normal that she doesn’t come from penetration alone. The only issue here is that you think it’s an issue when it isn’t.

  12. As a woman, I can’t cum just from penetration. And the same goes for most women. Most need clit stimulation too

  13. Woman here. Not matter how much I’m in to it and how horny i am, I’ve never cam from penetration alone.

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