So for a little context I’m 21M and she is a 25F we have been talking for months due to a difficult situation being she is my best friends sister… while ik that’s a bad start he knows but is still on the fence. That’s not the problem though, I am a pretty open person so communication is a big thing with me. When we are in person and I see her (especially when we are drinking) she is amazing and opens up and tells me a lot and it’s perfect. Tells me that some things I do she hasn’t experienced before from previous relationships because they weren’t the best but I see them as normal things every man should do for a lady. Meanwhile over text it feels like she isn’t interested at all so we barely do text now. Randomly when the text conversation is dead for awhile I will get some sweet msg like she has been thinking about me or something nice and it will be fine for a day then go back to silence. I’ve never had a relationship like this so I’m confused at every turn, anyone have a idea what’s happening or what I need to do? If I left any important detail please ask, losing my mind.