I really like this girl and I think me and her could really click, but we haven’t hung out in person for a while. It’s hard for me to even tell if she’s interested in me cause all we do is text. We text a lot, but I just never hangout with her. We used to like each other but I had some bad issues and mindset regarding dating so I didn’t shoot my shot and I regret it a lot. I just think me and her could get along great but I just feel like Id be too awkward just asking her and stuff. Especially if she doesn’t reciprocate the feelings. I really don’t know what to do or how to even approach her to ask her. I’ve been thinking of dropping subtle hints and stuff but I don’t really know how and I also think it’d be better to just be straight up. Any advice or insight is helpful
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Better be subtle to avoid she feeling potentially uncomfortable. Just offer her to go somewhere together and see how she reacts.
You’re problem here is a simple case of fearing rejection. You didn’t shoot your shot in the past and regretted it. Don’t make the same mistake twice.
Here’s your advice: Get over your fear of rejection and get a pair and ask her out on a date. That’s how you tell if she’s interested. It’s really that simple.
If she rejects you move on. If she accepts you take it from there.