How do I teach my boyfriend to finger/eat me out?

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1. Tbh I would just take his head and either put it right to my vagina or ass and tell him to start licking it. He will eventually know what turns you on and how to eat you out

2. Put you hand on his and say, like this. Tell him higher or lower, faster or slower, harder or softer. He doesn’t have your equipment so he has no way of knowing unless you teach him.

3. There is an instructional program called OMGyes (www.OMGyes.com) designed to help people understand how to approach a clitoris. It is pricey, but even the free content is good.

4. Have him watch you give yourself an orgasm. Chances are he’ll love it and he can see how you like to touch yourself.

   [The wiki](https://reddit.com/r/sex/wiki/index?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) has a bunch of links to threads with tips on giving oral. You could read through them together.

5. I never did either and was pretty much in no man’s land when I started trying stuff on my girlfriend. I just tried a bunch of random stuff and she gave very clear directions as to what felt good and what she didn’t like. I also paid attention to various cues like her breathing, body movements, and obviously moaning. Then I just made sure to alternate between the things she likes so it doesn’t get monotonous.

   Pretty much since my second or third attempt, I’ve been able to make her O every time within five minutes just using my finger.

6. Practice and help videos online

7. Jordan Gray has a good article about this (with clear steps) on his blog.