Should I forget about it?
Long story as short as I can.
I broke up with my GF because I had feelings for another lady (who also was in a relationship).
I was honest with her and told her it wasn’t fair on her for me to deny it.
Fast forward and the other lady broke up with her bf. Before all of this we had discussed the connection between us and the flirting/texting was always suggestive that if the circumstances were different we could give it a shot.
Anyway, since her break up we’ve actually grown apart rather than closer. She told me she needed space to process it and I respected that but I asked her to be honest if she just doesn’t like me like that. She said it’s a timing thing right now. But she said she wouldn’t close the door completely.
It’s been a couple months now and we still talk but on and off and I’m uncomfortable suggesting anything because I feel like she just hasn’t got it in her to tell me hey Mark I don’t like you.
Feels like she lead me along to distract herself from her own relationship. I care about her and don’t want to end up completely resenting her so I’m thinking just let it breathe and maybe in a couple of months bring it up one last time and if she still says she’s not ready then just call it quits and ask her to be friends and keep in touch bc I don’t want her out of my life, that wouldn’t help me either.
Sorry for rant just confused
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I would just focus on yourself dude. She broke up with someone and probably needs time to reflect. It also sounds like she is weighing her options. So stop texting her a lot and focus on yourself. If you want her then you need to be successful.