so yea f21 i am always in pain and need to recover after having sex. it hurts to have sex aswell. any tips??

i think my downstairs area is just very sensitive

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  1. Hmm I am all into anal but when we do anal then my butthole also needs some recovery time after a session. So maybe its kind of the same with your vagina

  2. Are you receiving enough foreplay?

    Are you working into it slowly?

    Is enough lube being used?

  3. What way does it hurt? Sex isn’t supposed to be painful (unless that’s what you want). You should see a obgyn as you might have an issue (endometriosis, cysts, vaginal dryness, pelvic floor issue…).

  4. Use lube and see if it makes a difference. If it doesn’t, see a gynecologist. Pain during sex isn’t normal.

  5. It could be Vaginismus – a condition where your pelvic floor cramped and you can not have sex without pain. Sex should never hurt, if you use lube and have a little bit of foreplay.

  7. You absolutely need foreplay, the vagina needs time to warm up, even if you feel turned on, you need foreplay

  8. chronic pain during sex indicate that something isn’t right, either it’s a lube problem/ foreplay or actual medical problems. A part from vaginismus, it could be underlying yeast/bacteria infection or cervicitis

  9. Ok. Foreplay is important. You might me mentally turned on, but your body has not caught up yet. You need some oral, and some soft slow gentle fingering first. And don’t hesitate to use real lube. Even if you feel you are already wet, if you know you have a tendency to tear, lube it up baby! And then, he might be too thick for you. Me personally, even with prep and lube, a dick that is too thick WILL tear me. So I just don’t even bother with those anymore. I also can’t have penetration last two long. The more friction there is, the more micro tears will form inside. A two pump chump or as close to that is what I’m looking for.

    You can learn your body, what it needs and it’s limits. And you can insist on getting what you need during sex. If your partner won’t accommodate your needs, then don’t have sex with that one.

  10. If your vagina hurts all the time maybe try out anal? It may hurt the first 1-2 times but the pain will go away with time. At least when I’m having anal sex🤷

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