Seriously don’t know where to turn anymore. I make over 6 figures per year, I’ve got a kind personality, I literally was asked at a red light today while driving if I’m a movie star (I guess from the tan, muscles, car) but yet I can’t get a girl in bed with me to save my life. All 3 dating apps I use are dead for the most part rarely getting matches, and when I meet up with them, they are seem guarded and like they want to take things suuuperrr slow. I think the only “negative thing” about me is that I’m 5’6”.
I’m living in downtown San Diego and I honestly feel cursed.
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You seem like a catch. I would say the problem is with San Diego if you live in a smaller more conservative city you’ll be like catnip for the ladies also make sure that problem is not with you meaning personality wise like you’re to excited or something
As you said unfortunately height means alot to alot of women and being in a small size city limits your choices. You need to move or lower your standards.
Fellow San Diegoan. Most men I’ve seen online were dudes on yachts or surfers. Seems to be a niche for that here.
Honestly though, yes women care about height but I’ve seen so many couples out here where the guy was my height (5’5) and the girls didn’t seem to mind. It’s like finding a diamond in the rough but I know it’s possible, even in San diego.
If your main focus is getting a woman in bed, do you specify that? You say you meet up with them and take want to take things slow, which makes me feel like they don’t really know what you’re looking for.
ooph. Yeah its the height. Women want em tall, thats all there is to it
The dudes in San Diego are so hot you’ve got a lot of competition