So there’s this girl I want to talk to and get to know but I’m so nervous to walk up and start a conversation.
For context we have work together but we have different positions, we work in a restaurant, I’m a buser and she works up front doing to go orders, we’ve had very little interaction, but I did get the courage to say hi yesterday at work (small thing I know) but that’s about it, and I kept planning to go up but I was too nervous and honestly work was so busy I didn’t have a lot of time and I don’t want to bother her with her work either
How can I stop being so nervous? I have no problem talking to other busers, even the girl busers, I just need to get the courage to walk up and talk to get the initial conversation going, but how should I do this?
(Posting on an alt because my other account is well know in a certain community)
2 comments
You’ve built her up too much in your head. She’s a regular person. Read some of her social post untill you’re brain realizes this
Don’t try to not be nervous embrace it instead 🙂