He never touches my boobs, and if I ask him to he’ll play with them for like 1 minute and then stop.. every time. I have asked him if he likes my boobs / finds them a turn on, and he always says yes but his actions suggest otherwise? He barely even touches my butt, the thing he likes the most is looking at my asshole.. which is something which makes me uncomfortable (and even then he still doesn’t seem that much interested in this). He also likes it when I give him a blowjob when he’s lying down (and he keeps his eyes closed / doesn’t really look at me…). Or, he’ll prefer to jerk off while I kiss him (and he’s not that into kissing either). It just feels he’s not into my body as he doesn’t really touch any part of it lol. Is this typical for guys?
Porn-wise, he mostly watches “pawg/ ass”, trans women masturbating, or general doggy style.
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How are you 33 and married in one post and then 25 with boyfriend in another?
No that doesn’t sound right. Lots of red flags.
You will have to talk to him about it but it could be anything. Just straight up ask him why he isn’t into you.
It might be that he has lost interest, it could be really nervous, maybe he is in the closet, or maybe he has some weird fetish that he prefers and is fantasising about that instead.
If what he says doesn’t add up then he is probably lying to you, tell him how his actions make you feel, if he doesn’t make any consistent change then it is probably best to move on.
at a certain point in my life, I said to myself, I love boobs, but I never take advantage of them when I have access to them, what’s up with that? From then on, I always insisted on some time with her on top riding me, and I would lean up and suck on them, squeeze them, just enjoy them thoroughly, every time we had sex. It would drive her crazy too, really improved our sex life. Now I absolutely love just going to town on my partner’s boobs (I mean, we’ll probably never have sex again due to LTR, but that’s another story). Sounds like this guy may have deeper issues, but sometimes guys just need to realize that they need to take some initiative in this department.
Have you told him exactly what you want him to do regarding your boobs? Actions, duration, etc? We men are dense with hints. We require clear instructions. And a lot of us really want to please you.
My wife’s boobs don’t get much attention because they’re so sensitive that more than 30 seconds or so of me sucking them drives her pussy into a panic, at which point she pushes me off them and insists that I fuck her.
When we’re in cowgirl she enjoys brief sucking, maybe 10 seconds, but pulls back when she gets overwhelmed.
We do a lot of spooning where I can hold one of them and minimally stimulate the nipple. She can tolerate that for several minutes.
I’d love to do more but it seems to be all she can take given the positions.
Is there something else that you would want? Perhaps my wife would enjoy it as well.🤷♂️
So the easiest answer to this is that he is shy. I used to be the same way when I was younger. I didnt want to seem too eager. It was a real problem for me and of course for the women I dated because they did not feel terribly desirable.
Does your boyfriend ever drink? Does he become less inhibited when he drinks and do more of what you want and express himself better? Does he sometimes apologize for the things he does when you have sex after some drinks even though you had 0 issues with it? He may just be shy when it comes to sex.
Not typical, but every guy is different. Sounds like this guy does sex in a way that does not show/express appreciation of the partner’s body. I think it’s weird, but it’s normal for some.
Think about providing him training on this topic! Propose him a boob sex!