30m who has been friendless & single his entire life. I’m at a point now where I’m trying everything I can to improve myself in hopes that I can gain friends; which will help me improve social skills which may lead to better dating outcomes.
Does it make sense to ask coworkers their advice on meeting/dating women?
Befriending coworkers, hanging out with them, and letting them know that I’m struggling hard with dating?
I feel that I could trust at least one coworker with my problem. I could also probably trust a coworker who got fired months ago but is still around town.
If I’m right I might make friends and gain insight.
If I’m wrong then people at work may learn that I’m a loser.
I need to learn how to interact with humans in public
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Keep personal issues such as loneliness to yourself. Never share your personal problems with coworkers. They do not care about your social woes and they are not responsible for fixing your personal problems. In general, revealing/suggesting to others you are lonely does not leave a good impression of you. Rather than help you, they will wonder why that is. They will deduce you are not socially respected and that you make consistent choices to avoid meeting or talking to people. They will deduce that you might be desperate amd latch on to them since they are giving you attention. Nobody wants to be in that situation where they are your only option.