So my boyfriend knows I’m bisexual. I love him more then anything. Lately though I’ve been picturing myself getting eaten out by a female a lot or me eating a female out. He said if I’m good he will find a female for me to have fun with.
The thing is though I’m super jealous and I wouldn’t mind eating a female out while he has sex with me doggy style or me getting eaten out by a female while I’m sucking his dick.
I’m just afraid that him and the girl will try to do stuff with one another and it’ll kill my whole mood because I really don’t like sharing. That’s really the only reason why I haven’t brought up me wanting to eat a girl out / getting eaten out by a girl much. I use my vibrator like everyday and I get off to the thought of a girl licking my pussy while his dick is going down my throat and my face deep in some pussy while his dick is in my pussy and he’s cumming in me. Like that literally sounds AMAZING. I just don’t want him touching the other female. I only want him touching me. Idk if that sounds selfish or not but I just don’t want him to be intimate with another female. I feel like it’s different for me because her and I have the same body parts. Idk.
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If he is okay with finding you someone, he would probably be okay with you doing this solo. You could go home and tell him everything you did with her and then fuck him!
It’s perfectly fine to feel that way. If it’s something that you seriously want to do, make sure that you set those boundaries clear. They don’t interact with each other. Not gonna lie, that may make it difficult to find someone else, but it is possible. You just have to make sure that those boundaries are set.
So you want to have sex with someone else but you don’t want your partner to?
I think that answers your question. Until you feel like you can trust your partner to sleep with someone else and still love you then you shouldn’t expect them to do the same for you.
Edit: and fyi it’s not different, if anything it can be better. Sex with a woman can be mind blowing.
This one is hard for me, because as a guy I see your desire and he’s said he’d help you. But you are so jealous that he can’t enjoy it with you. Look what if he said his fantasy was to be with you and another girl, how can you be jealous but he’s understanding of your desires. I have found having a relationship in sharing is better than just one person gets something!! Just sayin, you guys couple swing together with just women or couples that would chance how it’s only a you thing!! Just my opinion, jealousy is a two way street.