Question is more so for the men : as a man, what do you think is a tell tale sign for a woman that he is not into it during sex? Like is there anything you do or don’t do when you’re not feeling the sex your having with someone? Essentially, how to tell if a man is just not into it.

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  2. I try not to give off any “tells.” I want her to think I’m having the time of my life.

    I think I’m a reasonable good actor.

  4. The guy that finishes, rolls over, puts on clothes, and says “sorry, I gotta go, I’m super busy.”

  7. I don’t really have an answer because I only have sex with people I’m actually into, and if I consented to sex at that time it’s because I was into having it???

    Are people out there having sex with people they’re not into/having sex when they’re not into it??

  8. There’s no consistent “tell” that would be remotely accurate from person to person. In general, you could say “lack of enthusiasm” or “seems indifferent” but those are still kind of vague

  10. I won’t go down on her.

    Foreplay is minimal.

    Post nut clarity turns her into Rasputia no matter what she looks like.

  11. A sign is if they are Not passionate, not much noise or heavy breathing etc.

    I try to work with them and find out what they like and fix the issue. Communication between partners is vital and if we are not connecting well.

    I need to find out what I am doing that doesn’t work it and change it.

  12. They’ll just have the dead eyes, and be going through the motions. Probably not very responsive, maybe even look distracted.

    I will literally be staring off zoned out while the act is going on. (30m)

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