i did what y’all always say. be direct take a shot.gym crush and i have been saying hi making convo … he comes up to me i come up to him at the gym etc… we have each other socials.he likes everything i post. this progressed well i thought it did when he asked me to spot him on a workout and asked if he can film it for insta i said sure! he posted it and even tagged me. so naturally i got excited and next day i messaged him if he wanted to be my plus one for a xmas party….. on insta … 4 hours later nothing…. did i blow it …. was he just giving off friends vibes … i hope he doesn’t make it awkward help guys did i do something wrong … also i know guys aren’t suppose to ask girls out at the gym..
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Congrats! That takes a lot of courage. It’s just four hours. Give it time. Even if he doesn’t respond, be proud. You had the courage. You did it. You can do it again.
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>i know guys aren’t suppose to ask girls out at the gym..
Why? There are no rules. Ask whomever you want out!
Give him a while to think, maybe he needs to figure out his existing plans for that day…