So I’m trying to take some spicy photos for this girl and hope she enjoys them.but how do I do/make spicy photo for her any tips?

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  2. You should really talk to her about what she wants to see.

    It’s extremely common for women to be super “meh” about still photos but very turned on by video with sound.

  3. Pay attention to angles, lighting and the background. No toilets. No messy rooms. No dry or dirty skin or fingernails.

  6. Avoid turning the pictures into dick pics, I doubt anyone really enjoys those unless they asked for them. Usually, a suggestion about what goes on when you’re together works better; show her you’re turned on and touching yourself, or almost naked. I also agree with the comment about sounds/voice messages!

  7. 1. Not every picture needs your dick in it. Tease a little. Shirt up, underwear/pants down but not revealing everything.

    2. Clean background. No toilets. No mess. No feet.

    3. Good angle pics. Side shots usually work well. Shoot with the camera closer to your body angled upward so that things appear larger.

    4. Ask what they want to see after sending a few if the teaser pictures.

  9. Coming from a woman, video w sound is a million times hotter than pics but not every woman is the same

  10. Totally depends on her. Cleanliness, not something gross in the background, good lighting go a long way. I’ve heard a lot of women say that an actual short video of an actual cumshot (with sound) is really hot for them, but that is diving in at the deep-end and hard to top, so don’t necessarily lead with that, but something to think about/discuss with her. Or something like that Lionel Richie pose, lying on the bed (was suggested to me by someone I was sexting with) – but that means including your face which is often not a good idea when it comes to sexts. At the end of the day, you’re sharing yourself with her, and as long as you’re coming from a good place and trying, that counts for a lot.

  15. There are several boudoir photographers on other social media who teach people how to pose to send sexy selfies. That aren’t just weird angled dick/titty pics.
    The basics are clean your background. Set your phone on something set to video. Get into whatever pose hold for a count of 3. Readjust your change anc repeat. Then review the video and screenshot the best angles to send.

  17. Honestly man, with how potentially bad it could be to send pics to the wrong number or get intercepted, I really suggest you stick with showing her you up close if she wants to see you.

  20. When I have gotten spicy pics. I always liked a tease. Seeing his hard on through his pants or underwear.
    Lifting his shirt.

  21. So I think most women much like most men would prefer a video over a picture.

    Men please correct me if I’m wrong but I’ve gotten infinitely better reactions from a video of myself vs just a nude photo.

    That being said I do enjoy nudes from men and if you can find a way to angle it so you can see your face as well as your dick and it’s not awkward that’s the best

  22. Video with audio, especially if you’re on the vocal side. Also like others have said, teasing with your bulge thru pants/boxers is top tier

  23. Also a lot depends on what level of intimacy you two have. Are you already having sex? Try sending video of your face and moms while masturbating thinking about her. Slip her name in there too. That has been gold for me as a sexy thing to share.

    I’ve also found near universal appreciation for “less is more” photos. Like touching yourself and seeing a bulge or erection in your underwear. Or if she says how sexy your chest is, send chest photos. Show off fun underwear. Steamy wet pose after a shower but not showing your junk. Or ways she could be with you (“there’s this empty space in my bed next to me, lay your head on my chest”, send photo of your bare chest in bed, etc.)

    And for Spock’s sake smile! Show some warmth and affection and let her know she makes you both happy AND turned on.

    And also don’t push her boundaries. If she isn’t a fan of dick pics, don’t send dick pics. Use photos to tease and flirt and build anticipation and know you’ll get the full viewing soon.

  24. More bulge and body, abs, whatever your best feature is. I think short videos are cute and hot. Or if you can make it “move” in a video. Not sure what she likes.

  25. Hand on your thigh (either bare thigh or with dress pants) with a watch on no penis in the photo. Tell her your going to bend her over your knee and spank her (or finger her). I find that creating a scenario is more of a turn on to me than the photo itself. But the combo is nice.

  26. You got a beard? Women love beards. Make sure you’re properly hydrated so your lips look good too. Then take a picture of half of your face. Enjoy her reaction.

  28. love mirror pics with a serious face but like showing your body as well. Looove seeing “v-lines” or just a little lower right above a man’s thing lol

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