My new boyfriend has never eaten a woman out and has only fingered a girl once 😲 in bed he seems pretty reserved …. My sense is that he’s anxious.
How can I encourage him to be comfortable? How do I go about teaching him to do oral.
He said he would be down to try oral but in the moment he said no. He looked so intimidated lol
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Yes, agree that he is anxious, unsure and shy.
What you can do is to use an intimate situation of kissing, cuddling, getting naked, touching each other, giving oral to him… Take his hand gently and show him where you like been touched, push his head in the right direction when he is going down on you. Speak out your feelings and keep moaning, that was the process I was teached years ago.
I’m dating myself, I’m sure, but anonymously (or not) get him a subscription to Maxim Magaine (is that still a thing, maybe an online version, lol). One of my exs was a virgin when we met, and very quickly he turned out to be one of the best I’ve ever been with and he credits like 95% of it to what he learned from Maxim.
Just be honnest and tell him how it feels for you and also tell him what you like so he can try it
If he do something good or you like his penis, then give him a compliment, makes every boy proud