I (f22) have this problem, where intercourse doesnt feel like anything. Like sure, i can feel it. Is it stimulating -no. Sometimes it is kind of uncomfortable even. Like is this a common thing between women? Has anyone had thia problem and fixed it somehow?

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  3. For me, I feel very little if I’m not super into the guy/ situation, but can even orgasm from it if I am.

  4. Look up vaginal tenting. This is what will make penetration feel pleasurable for you.

    You are going to have to figure out what sort of sexual activities, fantasies, interactions etc. can make your vagina tent. I know for me I require a certain type of chemistry, dirty talk and a bit of roughness before mine will. This will obviously be a set of things individual to each person.

    You may just have to explore more to figure that out for yourself. But penetration is not pleasurable and frequently uncomfortable for me if my vagina is not tenting.

  5. Are you making sure to do lots of foreplay before hand so you’re really horny? In the past when I didn’t do foreplay I also felt basically nothing. But when I’ve already been turned on and had an orgasm during foreplay? Sex itself is sooooo much better

  6. There are some things you can try and experiment with (a pillow under my hips always makes it feel better for me, but I still won’t orgasm), but also be prepared if it just doesn’t get better. Many of us can’t orgasm just from penetration, and never will. If this is you, your partner needs to be prepared to give you equal time doing things that do directly stimulate you.

  8. Tenting is relevant too but also I was able to wake up my posterior fornix (p-spot) which is near the cervix by exploring with my fingers a few times over the course of a few days and using THC edibles (careful with those as they’re intense as fuck). I can now feel it when my partner penetrates me either with fingers or his dick and it’s really great. Can’t usually cum from it exclusively but it feels good enough that I can’t really do anything except lie there and moan

  9. I am the same and from what I have heard I would not say it’s uncommon. The only thing for me to make it feel more comfortable (still not stimulating at all though) would be a long foreplay and lube. Also the penetration needs to be slow and not lasting for a long time and there needs to be a lot of touching and kissing.

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