I (23M) have been dating my current partner (22F) for over 3 months now. Our emotional and sexual chemistry has been amazing since the first experience. However, I once asked her what acts makes her cum (so I can do more of that) and she told me that she enjoys stuff like being fingered, etc, but she actually doesn’t know if she had an orgasm before. She masturbates, engages sexual acts with me (fingering, eating her out, etc) to which she says feels amazing. But she doesn’t actually know if she cums/has cum before (even with previous partners). I guess my question is how do girls know if/when they cum? And is there anything I can do as a guy to guide her/help her finally cum?
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>guess my question is how do girls know if/when they cum?
I knew I had an orgasm when I felt it for the first time. I can very clearly tell by the feeling (intense build up and release) and the way my body reacts (tensing up and my vagina muscles contracting).
>And is there anything I can do as a guy to guide her/help her finally cum?
I mean it is going to be difficult when she doesn’t know what works for herself. But you can most certainly try.