She claims he is university colleague.
I feel she has feelings toward him, and whenever he does “something wrong” to her she forgives him.
If i do the same “wrong thing” she would never forgive me.
Also she keeps sending him some random photos about her and asking his opinion for fashion, and texting till 5am.
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Doesnt matter. If shes not phyiscally cheatin shes emotional cheating.
>Dating a woman who regularly texts another man at all hours of the night
Lmao.
She is cheating on you lol. Been there, done that. She kept saying she loved only me meanwhile still chasing the other guy
Best I can say is if your gut is telling you something is off, bail. It’s honestly better than letting that stew and blow up later.
Drop her. Pussy is literally everywhere.
You’re in the back pocket man. I bet it’s dark in there.
Get rid of her man.
Someone hug this man.
“Suspicions”?
Almost every time dude. There’s being a possessive jealous boyfriend, and then there’s trusting your gut and having boundaries. What she’s doing with this dude is borderline “I’m about to cheat” behavior. She might not be, I don’t have all the info, but what I do know tells me he’s not “just a friend”. At the very least she might just dump you first so it’s not technically wrong to do it.
An easy way to know if you’re just being paranoid or possessive is to ask yourself if your gf would be okay with it if it was you and a female friend. The problem these days is that men are over correcting hard as to not appear controlling of their gfs. I’ll tell you right now though that a lot of women are *not* okay with half the shit men let their gfs get away with.
I was 100% right. Because I found out she did the exact same thing to get with me
It’s OK for you to not be OK with this, Its OK to have a boundary set. Don’t stay in a relationship that doesn’t make you comfortable. If she’s compatible she’ll respect your boundaries, if not then you know what needs to happen.
You don’t have a right to tell.her who she can and can’t talk to. But you do have a right to be unhappy about it and to tell her that this is making you unhappy. If she doesn’t respect that you are upset by this then you have a decision to make..
Holy hell dude get some respect. This is absolutely cringe to read
If she isn’t cheating yet, pretty good chance she will. Pick up and get out.
Nothing wrong with being single for a while. Single years were some of the best years of my life
After getting gaslit (gaslighted?) for a few years my suspicions turned out be 100% accurate.
Follow your gut, also if it looks, smells and quacks like a duck then it’s a duck type of thing.
100% of all straight male friends would want to fuck your girlfriend.
there’s only two variables. 1. How much does your girlfriend want to fuck them or 2. how naieve is your girlfriend and thinks a not so innocent friendship is an innocent friendship.
I am a girl and I would much rather ask a female friend for fashion advice unless the male friend is gay. She either likes him as more than a friend, or he’s gay?
My own mother told me I was being paranoid, I was not.
bro shes sending pictures of her outfits. What do you think? Having a male friend is one thing. Constantly chatting and sending pictures/ generally seeking attention is not normal. theyre either fucking or not fucking yet.
That is her boyfriend, or at least who she wants to be her boyfriend.
This is peak reddit right here.
“GUISE my gf is staying up all night and constantly having study overs ( bringing over night bag full of new lingure Ive never seen) to her new bf (best friend of course hahaha she isnt one of THOSE girls haha) house several nights in a row and im slightly worried. Also she sends him photos for fashion reasons and stuff at 5 in the morning. Im a bit worried but im also reddit masculine so IDK who she talks to ( or fucks) im just super secure but… im still a bit worried. Any advise??/”
Edit1: “She kissed me right when I picked her up and it tasted a bit… salty. She told me its a facial he gave her (Im so glad he cares so much about her skin care routine :)))”
Always go with your gut feeling.
I’ve never been wrong ahout a guy.
Been there done that. Never again. She’s for the streets.
I wouldn’t invest another minute in this relationship. Move on. There are billions of women in the world.