My bf mostly wants me to blow him over anything else. And it’s not pleasant to him sometimes. I never had this problem with guys so I never thought about ‘practicing’ or ‘training’. What to do to be better? A dildo? Has to be a person? I don’t wanna practice on him cus that defeats the purpose. It’s hurting the relationship and I don’t wanna keep procrastinating over ‘getting better naturally’ until he doesn’t even want me to suck him anymore.
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Ask him what he likes And improve over his testimony
Enthusiasm counts for a lot. Most women aren’t particularly enthusiastic about blowing guys — and it’s quite mental for them. I tell him I’m excited to taste his cum, I want to play with his balls, I love squeezing his butt… all the truths and then some. It gets him there quickly. In that moment, I embrace my inner raunchy and it helps him.
If he watches porn a lot that will explain why
Stroke his clock while you suck his dock. Your mouth should follow your hand so your mouth is lubing and dropping and stroking. No teeth ever!! Lightly caress and play with the balls.
He needs to talk about what feels good to him, in the same way that you guide him when he is going down on you. Practice should be fun as you learn together. The more you listen to each other, giving positive feedback, the better it will get.