Recently one my girl friends said something along the lines of “Yeah I don’t have much to offer,would you accept getting married to me?”. It was clearly a joke,didn’t feel like she was self deprecating or anything. Is this a sign she wouldn’t mind being a relationship with me? I’m not desperate to get with her,just wondering,who hates a little confidence boost from time to time? lol. She’s affectionate towards but in a catty/coy way,so I can’t clearly tell.
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TL:DR: Girl friend might be flirting,might be not. I’m not sure lol.
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It’s very hard to know without a ton more context. I joked about wanting to marry a friend of mine when I found out she could bake fresh bread. I’m not even attracted to women; it was just meant as a joking way to talk about how awesome I thought the skill was (and how tasty bread is). I don’t know what she was thinking when she said that, but it sounds like it was about her needing a self-esteem boost – and beyond that, who knows?
She was feeling you out. It’s your move.
You could always try joking back that you would consider marrying her. Or you could just ask her nicely if she was joking.
thats called a hint my dude